Over Bearing Momma

A new day that consists of girls having babies as early as 12 and even experiencing Sex consensually as early as age 9 are the Scariest days I could have ever imagined as a Parent ,We are all looking for answers that encourage our Young Ladies to make Lady Like decisions when It comes to Boys, but I must address the Over Bearing Momma Tactic ~ Ummm Not Gonna Work~ It’s Fantastic that you pay attention to your child and point out things that they should & shouldn’t do but let’s be Realistic screaming about being on the phone with Boys all the time and let me reinerate on the action (screaming) do you really think that Helps or encourages sneaking. Now don’t misunderstand I’m not saying that you shouldn’t address it if it’s Boy Crazy syndrome where the majority of their time consists of Boys Boys, Boys ,But I am saying that you were a Teen Girl once too so you know that’s what they do and this is when I give you the what the Blank did you think they were going to do Stare there at a time where they like Boys they want to talk to Boys and even though they are scared to death most of the time they want to be around Boys and will resort to some extreme measures and the more Over Bearing the Parents it seems the more extreme the measures get because now you have created a situation where they feel that your keeping something from them that all their Peers are experiencing and It feels fantastic you remember when you saw the Boy you liked it’s a new feeling and Frankly I have to ask you now would you rather your daughter liking Girls! something to think about right always insisting they talk to or be around their Good Girlfriend and I have news for you that’s when the Boy talk begins. No No don’t is the wrong information then our Girls resort to T.V and Reality shows that sends a message that the world of Men & Women consists of cheating disrespectful Men that sleep with all the Women they can and the Women accept It while being at each others throats and this is why our Young Girls are doing so much fighting in school when you get to the root of the problem it leads back to a Boy every time, Funny thing is Men behave just that way but the catch 22 is that’s also if you allow them to behave that way and teen or not they need to know this because knowledge is key when you give away your sugar you give away your sweet and just like Bees Boys are attracted to Honey so I say all of that to say Teach them what to do to make the boys want to stay and school them so they know if this doesn’t work he wasn’t going to stay anyway because it’s so many Honey trees out there and Bees always return to their Hive so cool it with being Over Bearing Momma. Set up some guidelines or you will find that she’s going to sneak and do things the wrong way.