NOT MY DAUGHTER!!!

 Remember the things we did behind our parents back sneak boys in the house when they weren’t home the kissing, letting little boys feel you up saying very grown things on the phone to boys putting the extra set of clothes in your bag and changing at school things that you KNOW your MOMMA would not approve of, well i want you to multiply that by 5 so whatever the content of you and your good girlfriends grown azz conversation consisted of at whatever age that’s the level your daughter is on and if she ’s not an active part and she may not be she is definitely hearing ,seeing and saying some very grown things.

Ladies we have all all said it well i’m hear to tell you Hmmm.Yes your daughter and if it makes hearing it any easier Yes my daughter too, we have to sit these girls down NOW and talk to them about everything or they will be lost in the land of followers my suggestion is to read this Blog with your daughters or anything that pertains to these subjects and when and if she grins laughs uncontrollably or blushes it’s because she knows these things to be true don’t get upset get closer because it’s time to talk and i strongly believe in being a mother and a friend.

As parents and this even goes out to Dad’s talk to your girls and most important let them talk to you and please try not to go into the 3 hour story about you and when you were growing up , just listen because it’s not about you and don’t do what most of us do when its something we think is too much or that they shouldn’t be doing we yell shut them up and shut them out for them to now get information from their good-girlfriend who knows just as much of nothing that yours did when you were her age.

Times have changed so drastically the way of the world is totally different and we parents have to change with it in order to protect our daughters, one example the lyrics in these songs on main stream radio go in detail about SEX Birthday Sex, Welcome to My Sex Room and no need to change the station because if she doesn’t hear it with you she will hear it some where else guaranteed my 6 year old knows these songs word for word and knows which words to skip over now who told her exactly which words were inappropriate H-E-L-L-O if she’s six and she knows what do you think the older ones know?

It’s time to give these little girls some real Big Girl advice, i suggest always use the good girlfriend rule you know how your good girlfriend calls you up and she wants to tell you something because she needs to talk but she first feels you out on the subject and then playfully eases it on in and waits for your opinion and you tell her the truth real nice and easy out of love no judgment no anger  but she doesn’t speak to you for about a week because she’s offended the same thing will happen But your Good girlfriend will always come back for real advice, so with that let’s keep it real Mothers and daughters because our girls are laughing inside when you say Not my daughter!

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